YOU ARE - YOU´VE BEEN LOOKING FOR. So stop looking for more. Unless you’re looking in a mirror, because it´s about time for you to see clearly that you are, you have been looking for. And that empty feeling you got, that hole in your chest, you only got that feeling, because you think you are not blessed with everything you need. We live in a consumerist society which means they need you to buy stuff and the easiest way to sell it, is, to tell you’re not enough. Buy this car - you’ll get this girl. Buy this bra - you’ll get this guy. And we’re seeing it so much that we start believing these lies, but the truth is: the makeup they’re selling to make you feel prettier is the same makeup you buy to stop feeling shittier about this lie, they keep telling you that you are not enough.

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And what about the movies we watch, all the shows on TV. The more I watch, the more I see - I need you to complete me. And yes, love is the answer, love is the key. But if you cannot love yourself, how could you ever love me? And loving yourself what does that even mean? Like massages and selfies and that sort of thing because the more I think about it, the more I feel weird. I’m supposed to love myself, but how I even do that? Well I got a trick, picked up from a friend. He gave me a piece of advice that changed my life. He gave me a hug und he said: “ Treat yourself as someone you loved.”

I couldn´t believe that I had been letting myself keep forgetting that I was who I´d been looking for and deep in my core I knew it was time to stop looking for more. Until I look through all my fear and look into a mirror and see clearly that the woman looking back at me is the only one who can make me happy and I’m already enough. And I am not any more special or unique than you, this is why I am here to speak to you - you are already enough. And when you start to see that you will start to be that, your world will get brighter, your load will get lighter and you can see that in this life you can be a lover not a fighter. And that life you deserve it because you are worth it. And there is no point in letting yourself keep forgetting because no matter what you say or you do - you are perfect. And so today I hope I leave you with a direction correction away from the flaws you see in your reflection. They aren’t flaws to me, they are simply protection against all the doubts you have of your perfection. So start today, take a good long look in the mirror and say, I AM - WHO I´VE BEEN LOOKING FOR.